TAKING THE TIME TO ESTABLISH A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR NEIGHBOURS MAKES THE NEIGHBOURHOOD A MORE COMFORTABLE PLACE IN WHICH TO LIVE.
Being a good neighbour has numerous benefits, both for you and for the community.
1. INTRODUCE YOURSELF
Whether you’re new in the neighbourhood or new residents have just moved in next door, introduce yourself. Say HELLO and ask for (or give) information about the local area.
2. CONSIDER YOUR NEIGHBOURS LIFESTYLE
Get to know your neighbours – what they do for a living, what their schedules might be like, and so on. Sometimes, you can remedy problems before they even start: for example, if they work nights, quiet mornings will be important for them. If they have young children, quiet evenings will be very important to them. Similarly, give them information that will help them be more considerate of your lifestyle, with regard to noise or anything else.
3. BE AWARE OF SHARED WALLS
If you’re in a town house, a semi-detached house or any structure where you and your neighbours share adjacent living spaces, position noisy household appliances such as washing machines and tumble dryers – even TV’s and speakers – away from the partition walls. If you live above someone, consider insulating the floor.
4. CONTROL YOUR DOG
Make sure your property if dog-proof and do not leave your house without having your dog on a lead. Make sure that your dog does not bark, whine or howl when you’re out of the house. If you have problems controlling your dog’s barking or whining, seek advice from your local vet or SPCA.
5. ALERT YOUR NEIGHBOURS TO PARTIES
If you’re planning a party, always let your neighbours know when it’s going to start and when you expect it to end. Leave them a number to contact if the noise is bothersome. If you get on well with your neighbours, why not invite them too? Check local regulations regarding noise levels.
6. CONTROL YOUR BRAAI OR ANY OTHER GARDEN FIRE.
Position it where the smoke and smell will be least likely to blow onto your neighbour’s property. Check local regulations regarding burning garden refuse before you do so.
7. PUT RUBBISH / GARBAGE OUT ON THE RIGHT DAY
Put your rubbish/garbage out only on the day it’s due for collection. If you accidentally miss the collection, bring it back onto your property immediately and try to contain it well. Garbage can attract vermin, insects and other pests and is also unsightly. If you have a wheelie bin, do not put it out the night before or leave it out once it has been emptied until the next day. Thieves use these to store and cart stolen items or use them to stand on to gain access over gates, walls, etc.
8. COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR NEIGHBOURS
Keep the channels of communication open by reminding them that if you’re doing anything that disturbs them, they should feel comfortable approaching you about it.
9. BE AWARE OF YOUR SURROUNDINGS, AS WELL AS THEIRS
Even if you’re not in a “neighbourhood watch” community, keep your eye on anyone you don’t know who is acting suspiciously around your neighbour’s property. When in doubt, call your neighbourhood watch or the police.
In our area we have Street Captains – ensure that you have the number of your street captain or the blockwatch number on hand.
10. WATCH OUT FOR YOUR NEIGHBOUR
Really good neighbours watch out for each other. They respect each other. They respect each other’s boundaries, but are quick to assist in a crisis. They look for opportunities to collaborate and to interact.